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October 15, 2025 - Feeling Unloved? 3 Wonderful Ways to Become Your Own Source of Love

Every moment invites a choice: believe your mind’s story or see reality clearly through mindful awareness and openness.

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At every moment, you have two choices: believe the narrative in your mind, or see reality for what it is. Are you just seeing or seeing “as”? With mindful awareness, you can getContinue Reading

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Feeling Unloved? 3 Wonderful Ways to Become Your Own Source of Love

If you’re solely counting on others to make you feel loved and appreciated, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.

Of course it's wonderful to be affirmed by those close to you. However, if others are your primary means of feeling loved, you may find yourself feeling sad, angry, frustrated, and probably lonely.

I used to struggle quite a bit with feeling unloved and unworthy.

Unconsciously, I reached for others to try to fill the emptiness I was feeling within and it usually set me up to feel disappointed or hurt. It took me a while, but I finally learned that I had to learn how to love myself first in order to fill up that inner void

This Week’s Mental Health Recipe

Bowl of creamy dessert topped with crumbled cookies and cinnamon, surrounded by pumpkins, cinnamon sticks, and a spoon on a wooden surface.

Try This Fall Comfort Food: Apple Cinnamon Yogurt Bowl

It’s apple-picking season! As such, I’ve been seeing everyone posting about their recent apple-picking adventures. And it’s enough to make anyone crave something warm, cozy, and apple-spiced. 

But instead of another pie or crumble, this simple recipe takes just a few ingredients and turns them into comfort food that also happens to support your mental health. It tastes like fall and also provides tons of nutritional value for your mind and body. It’s also ultra-simple and serves as a great snack or breakfast…

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Give Your Feelings Somewhere to Land

Sometimes emotions build up quietly until they start weighing you down. You might not even notice it at first but you feel tense, distracted, or tired. Often, what makes it harder isn't the feeling itself but keeping it all inside.

How often do you actually let yourself feel what you're feeling? Most of us don't. We're too busy, or we think our feelings are inconvenient, or we're worried that if we start acknowledging them, they'll take over, so we shove them down and keep moving. Those feelings don't just disappear, though.

Taking a moment to get those feelings out can bring more relief than you expect. Write down one emotion that's been sitting with you lately, just name it and let it exist on paper. You don't have to fix it, but you do have to acknowledge it. Putting your feelings into words takes them out of your head and gives them shape. Once they're written down, they lose some of their intensity, and you can breathe a little easier. Sometimes that's all it takes to start feeling lighter.

Take five minutes today to write down one emotion that's been weighing on you. Be honest, even if it feels small or uncomfortable. You don't need to solve it. Just give it a place to land and let that be enough for today.

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Today's Affirmations

I have all the tools I need to live my best life.

I manage my internal energy well.

I find peace in accepting my authentic selfContinue Reading

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