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October 14, 2025 - Obsessing About Your Partner? 3 Tips For Overcoming Relationship Insecurity
When you release the need to control every detail, you create space for trust, presence, and the unfolding of what’s truly meant for you.
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Obsessing About Your Partner? 3 Tips For Overcoming Relationship Insecurity
Do you tend to obsess over your partner or spouse?
I don’t mean in the beginning of a relationship when you’re in the honeymoon phase. It’s very natural for both of you to think about each other constantly. You’re falling in love, and this can cause you to literally think of them all day long.
However, if you’re obsessing over your partner out of insecurity, that’s another story. You could be dealing with an unhealthy attachment or codependency.
I understand having an unhealthy attachment to a loved one.
I obsessed over my ex-partner for about five years. Almost all of my waking moments were thoughts about them. If I was not with them, I was thinking of ways to help them or make their life easier, writing poems, figuring out how to make them smile, and so on…
The 5 Best Benefits of Solitude & Being Alone
In our hyperconnected world, we're constantly moving—responding to emails, attending meetings, scrolling through feeds, and checking off endless to-do lists.
But in the rush to keep up, we risk losing touch with what truly matters:
our authentic selves
our core values
the direction of our lives
This article explores why deliberately stepping away from the noise isn't selfish—it's essential.
Discover how practicing intentional solitude can help you recalibrate your compass, reignite your sense of purpose, and return to your daily life with renewed clarity, energy, and focus.
Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is pause, reflect, and simply be alone with your thoughts…
One Positive Action
Name the Season You're In
Life moves in seasons, even when the calendar doesn't show it, but we all feel it. There’s stretches where everything feels fast-paced, and others where it feels quieter, but so often we expect ourselves to be in full bloom all the time, and that is when the burn out creeps up.
From a young age, we’re taught to always be moving forward, regardless of how we feel or what else is going on around us. There’s this pressure to always be growing, improving, always chasing the next goal, but that's not how life actually works. Sometimes you're in a season where everything clicks and you have energy to spare, but other times, just getting through the day feels like enough.
I want to encourage you to take a few minutes to be honest with yourself about where you are right now. Are you in a season of rebuilding? Are you learning how to trust yourself again after something hard? Maybe you're in a rest season or things are finally clicking in your life. When you name the season you're in, you stop fighting against yourself. You can finally start to see what you actually need instead of what you think you should need.
Find a few quiet minutes today to reflect on what kind of season you're in. Write it down, then choose one small way to align your choices with that season, whether that means slowing down, rebuilding, or reaching for something new.
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Today's Affirmation
I am feeling a positive shift within me.
Positive experiences naturally come my way.
I am attracting more supportive people in my life…
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