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Mar 27, 2025 - The 4 Attachment Styles: How Can They Affect Your Relationships?
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Daily Motivation
March 27, 2025
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The 4 Attachment Styles: How Can They Affect Your Relationships?
There are a lot of factors that shape us into being the people we are today. Among these factors is the relationship we have/had with our primary caregiver when we were young. In most cases, this is our mothers.
In the 1950s, Bowlby introduced the attachment theory which was later expanded by Mary Ainsworth. The theory suggests that there are four types of attachment.
All are dependent on how we were raised and how our primary caregiver attended to our needs.
The attachment style we develop as kids grows into being one of the most crucial determinants of how we interact with others and how we navigate relationships…
What If You’re Already Enough? The Myth of Constant Self-Improvement
Ever feel like no matter how much you do, like how many books you read, habits you hack, or goals you chase, you’re still not there yet? Like there’s always some shinier, more “improved” version of yourself just out of reach?
Yeah… same.
I used to be that person with three self-help books half-read on my nightstand, a list of new routines taped to my fridge, and this constant nagging feeling that I wasn’t quite enough yet.
Every Monday felt like a fresh chance to become a better me, whether that meant waking up at 5AM, drinking green smoothies, or meditating longer…
One Positive Action
Check in on someone:
One of the most powerful things we can do for each other, especially in a world that’s moving so fast, is to simply reach out. When we’re caught up in our own schedules and struggles, it’s easy to assume that the people we care about are doing fine. But the truth is, we never really know what someone’s carrying until we ask. A quick check-in, a simple message, can be the difference between someone feeling alone and someone feeling seen.
Connection doesn’t always come from big gestures. It often lives in the quiet, consistent moments where we show up, without needing a reason or a perfect opening line. “Hey, I was just thinking about you” is more than enough. It tells the other person: You matter. You haven’t been forgotten. And sometimes, that’s all someone needs to feel a little lighter.
It also takes courage. Reaching out, especially if it’s been a while, can bring up vulnerability. What if they don’t respond? What if it’s awkward? But choosing to connect in spite of that discomfort is one of the most wholehearted things we can do. It’s a reminder that relationships don’t need to be perfect to be meaningful. They just need care, and care doesn’t need a reason.
So here’s your invitation: today, message one person you haven’t talked to in a while. Ask how they’re doing. Tell them they crossed your mind. It doesn’t have to be deep or long or polished. Just real. Because the simple act of reaching out can crack open space for empathy, connection, and maybe even healing, for both of you.
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I am moving to a new level in my life. I embrace good habits through intention and repetition. I am starting to see myself more clearly. I am moving in… Continue Reading
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