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Jan 8, 2025 - The Art of Starting Over: How to Embrace Change and Redefine Your Life
Protect your peace: respond calmly, not react emotionally.
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There is no need to react to every single thing that triggers an uncomfortable emotional reaction in you. Reactions that stem from anger, fear, or frustration take a lot of your... Continue Reading
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The Art of Starting Over: How to Embrace Change and Redefine Your Life
Have you ever stood at the edge of a big decision, heart pounding, wondering, “What if this doesn’t work out?”
Starting over can feel like standing on a cliff, staring into the unknown. It’s terrifying, isn’t it? But let me tell you something—it’s also thrilling.
Starting over isn’t the end of the road; it’s a chance to build a brand-new one.
And here’s the best part: you’re the architect.
Let’s get real for a second.
Change is uncomfortable because it messes with our comfort zones…
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Mood-Boosting Chocolate Peanut Butter Energy Bites
When you’re constantly on the go, having a healthy snack prepped and ready can be life-saving.
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One Positive Action
Practice a “Soft No”
Saying no can feel like stepping onto a tightrope. You want to set a boundary, but you also don’t want to topple into guilt or drama. That’s where the “soft no” comes in. Clear, kind, and no room for debate. More “I appreciate you thinking of me, but I won’t be able to take that on right now” versus “No, I can’t do that.” You’re not being wishy-washy; you’re standing your ground in a way that feels natural and true to you.
Start by figuring out what you need to say no to. Maybe it’s the extra work project you didn’t have space for, or that invite you’d normally agree to out of obligation. Then, think about how you’d word it in a way that’s respectful but firm. “I appreciate you asking, but I can’t commit to that right now” works wonders. You’re honoring their ask while honoring your own limits, too.
The magic of a soft no isn’t just in saying it, it’s in what happens after. Once the words are out, don’t backpedal. Resist the urge to over-explain or fill the silence. Your no doesn’t need a ten-point justification. Trust that setting the boundary is enough.
Practicing this might feel awkward at first, specially if you’re a people pleaser, it might transcend awkward into anxiety, but every time you follow through, you’re building a muscle. One that reminds you that your energy, time, and space are yours to protect. And that’s not selfish, it’s absolutely essential.
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I am on the brink of a major breakthrough. I navigate uncertainty with patience. I make conscious decisions that align with my well-being. I practice mindful... Continue Reading
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